Sir Roger wrote:Social skills:
The ability to remain relaxed, or at a tolerable level of anxiety while in social situations
Listening skills, including letting others know you are listening
Empathy with and interest in others' situations
The ability to build rapport, whether natural or learned
Sarcasm:
1. harsh or bitter derision or irony.
2. a sharply ironical taunt; sneering or cutting remark
3. using a characterisation of something or someone in order to express contempt
He fails badly on the latter three. He doesnt listen (take in whats being said) because his response very often is not in relation to what he was asked. He doesnt have empathy as displayed with Alonso wanting to see the birth of his kid, and ultimately drove our controlling midfield lynchpin out of the club (the man didnt bother attempting to get back for his own fathers funeral). He doesnt build a rapport as his manmanagement is regarded among the worst in the league... you only need to read the comments from Gerrard, Carra, Torres, Alonso..and Pako who ran off. He wont get people..never will.
His bitter use of sarcasm i hadnt mentioned but its a trait that further alienates him with people. The one time i did applaud him for it was recently describing Souness as a "fantastic" manager.
As much as i respect Rafa for his strategic analysis (massively contributing to his 56% win ratio)..as a man i have no time for him. While i couldnt care what the LMA think, hes the least popular among all the other managers (only compatriot Martinez defended him)...thats telling.
Hes regimented, stubborn, control freak...will choose less talented players (lucas, kuyt) who are obedient yes men, over vastly more talented outspoken people (Bellamy). He doesnt develop flair players (Babel, and i worry for Aquilani) ... he develops workhorses....footsoldiers.
The reason all of this is relevant is because the mentality of the manager is the mentaliy of the team... we are shackled with him in charge, theres no freedom for the players to express themselves... coincidently as was the case with Houlli.