I agree with the help yourself stategy but being born white with a stable family from a middle class backround (me)makes it easier to succeed than a black baby from a one parent poor family. The white baby with the good backround does not have to be very good to do okay, being average is enough but the other one has to be very good to succeed and not everyone has the ability to be very good and top of the class etc.
If these countries spent less on weapons and space and more on building up there bad areas it would be better in the long run.