Can i just say something here about this lad patronising buissness .
Where i come from the word lad is used as part of my language . i will call my son lad . or someone i dont even know lad. the same as i will be call girl.
EY ARE LAD.
THANKS GIRL
simple.
It doesnt matter how young or old you are its a word in my language and i dont think its patronising at all .