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by **Judge** » Sat Feb 24, 2007 2:33 pm

on the day they buried my girlfriends mum, i got a phone call to say that my brothers wifes mum just died

what a cack 2007 for me

by **Judge** » Sat Feb 24, 2007 2:43 pm

the funeral is 1st march

by **Bad Bob** » Sat Feb 24, 2007 3:51 pm

Very sorry to hear this Judge. Had to deal with a loss myself recently, mate, so my sympathies to you, your girlfriend and your brother and sister-and-law. Keep your chin up, fella. YNWA

by **red37** » Sat Feb 24, 2007 4:14 pm

Judge wrote:on the day they buried my girlfriends mum, i got a phone call to say that my brothers wifes mum just died

what a cack 2007 for me

Thats the way life is mate....

one minute its yanking you up by the balls and forcing you to act...the next it pleasantly surprises you with twists and turns that were deemed impossible...to the next, where it kicks you squarely in the teeth and says...."ha - deal with that little lot"

sorry for your trouble Judge...take care and try not to become too cynical after this.

red

by **Mikz** » Sat Feb 24, 2007 4:18 pm

Sorry to hear of yer loss Judge, Be strong brother!

by **kazza 1** » Sat Feb 24, 2007 5:39 pm

I'm really sorry to hear that Judge. My thoughts are with you at this sad time. Billy and I are going through the same thing at the moment. My Aunts mother-in-law died on Wednesday. Was At the funeral this morning. We are at another funeral on Tuesday. Billys nieces cousin (on her fathers side) commited suicide earlier in the week. And my best mate Rickys wee brother is dying. Its only a matter of time now. Hes only 11. I've never been to the funeral of a child before.

by **daxy1** » Sat Feb 24, 2007 6:05 pm

bloody hell sorry to hear your bad news mate!

by **Lando_Griffin** » Sun Feb 25, 2007 5:53 am

Judge wrote:on the day they buried my girlfriends mum, i got a phone call to say that my brothers wifes mum just died

what a cack 2007 for me

I'm sorry to hear that mate.

Life's a piece of sh*t, but I hope you can pick yourself back up and help your girlfriend and your brothers wife get through their grief.

My thoughts are with you all.

by **matrix** » Sun Feb 25, 2007 6:08 am

so sorry judge...

i really hope you come through ok at this tragic time, i lost someone in my family lately, believe me its not nice, ye my father passed away 2 days before phil drummerphil, and now my brother has cancer, life really is a son of a bitch... all the best judge...

by **mrsDrummerphil** » Sun Feb 25, 2007 1:38 pm

My thoughts are with you and yours.
Although grief seems to have certain stages everyones grief is different, you have difficult times ahead. Take one day at a time, sometimes I can only cope with 1 hour to the next, the mixed emotions are a rollercoaster ride you certainly would not queue or pay to ride on. Stay strong and caring for your loved ones, sometimes they will lash out for no reason or try to put the world to rights. I think its really difficult for those close to the bereaved sometimes everything they say or do is wrong. Dont know if its an age thing but friends have said that death now seems to be more in your face, one friend attended 7 funerals last year, sometimes we darnt text each other cause there always seems to be bad news. Life is sh#t but death is the alternative and that scares the sh#t out off all of us,Phil had certain beliefs he may not have told you, he was never scared of death, took comfort that there was life after death and had a gift to prove this too, but when it came to it he turned away from this belief and that was the hardest part seeing him so scared, no matter what we believe it is still the great unknown but we cling onto the thoughts that our loved ones have gone to a better place and that they are whatching over us and if your reading this my love I know you will have words of comfort and wisdom for Judge and your love of life will continue to support and guide us. YNWA

Proud To Be MrsDrummerPhil X

by **Igor Zidane** » Sun Feb 25, 2007 2:48 pm

Judge wrote:on the day they buried my girlfriends mum, i got a phone call to say that my brothers wifes mum just died

what a cack 2007 for me

YNWA judge and karen.

by **jkop** » Sun Feb 25, 2007 3:53 pm

Im sorry to read this bad news Judge, my thoughts are with you and your family.

by **dward** » Sun Feb 25, 2007 4:32 pm

Hang in there Judge. Life is really crap sometimes and this is one of those times. Thinking of you and your family.

by **Judge** » Mon Feb 26, 2007 8:54 am

mrsDrummerphil wrote:My thoughts are with you and yours.
Although grief seems to have certain stages everyones grief is different, you have difficult times ahead. Take one day at a time, sometimes I can only cope with 1 hour to the next, the mixed emotions are a rollercoaster ride you certainly would not queue or pay to ride on. Stay strong and caring for your loved ones, sometimes they will lash out for no reason or try to put the world to rights. I think its really difficult for those close to the bereaved sometimes everything they say or do is wrong. Dont know if its an age thing but friends have said that death now seems to be more in your face, one friend attended 7 funerals last year, sometimes we darnt text each other cause there always seems to be bad news. Life is sh#t but death is the alternative and that scares the sh#t out off all of us,Phil had certain beliefs he may not have told you, he was never scared of death, took comfort that there was life after death and had a gift to prove this too, but when it came to it he turned away from this belief and that was the hardest part seeing him so scared, no matter what we believe it is still the great unknown but we cling onto the thoughts that our loved ones have gone to a better place and that they are whatching over us and if your reading this my love I know you will have words of comfort and wisdom for Judge and your love of life will continue to support and guide us. YNWA

Proud To Be MrsDrummerPhil X

thankyou for your kind words, and thankyou to all

by **Chinesegirl** » Tue Feb 27, 2007 3:28 pm

i'm sorry to hear that.

i also had a black year in 2005.my grandma and my uncle both died that year.i belive they are both hapiness in another world.
Be stroger,friend.they wound't be happy if you are too sad

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