by bigmick » Sun Apr 26, 2009 10:40 am
Sabre you keep going on about the mods being asked to card you, who by? I've never reported a post to a mod in my life, ask them if you don't believe me. I've been called everything on here, I've never asked for anyone to be carded, I've never hit the report button. Not once, ever. I don't know whether you are insinuating it's me who has done the "asking for the cards" but you've mentioned it three or four times now in direct responses to my posts. I'm not offended by the insinuation or anything, but just in terms of accuracy I thought it was best I cleared it up.
There are many times when people have been giving it to me with both barrels on here. Not calling me "happy clappy" or saying I'm "blindly devoted to Rafa" or that I wear "rose tinted spectacles" (the "insults" which the other side of the debate often throw up as examples of wrongdoing) but openly, blatently calling me a c... I got called a w@nker on here in my absense the other week, even when I'd stopped posting. I got ambushed on afternoon (night over there) by three posters simultaneously, called allsorts. I didn't report anyone to any mods, I didn't ask for anyone to be carded. I'm no hero, I simply agree with you that moids should be allowed to do their job. Don't talk to me about "class" though, and then start sticking in "feckings" when you are obviously referring to me later in the post. Totally unnecessary.
I'm not having a pop at the mods, far from it. Ultimately, if the thing is descending into a nonsense then they have to do something about it, I understand that. People are hardly going to listen to a mod asking them to calm down, so the only option open is often to card and ban people. My beef is though, that it's the same side of the argument every time which gets the cards and the bans. You mention Lando and his cards, even Lando himself I shouldn't think would dispute that he's warranted most of them. You could say the same thing for Barry who's been banned more times than he's had Babychams. You might make the argument (I'm not saying you are BTW) that you should be able to call whoever you want a c... whenever you want and that therefore they shouldn't be banned, and at least there's an argument. As it is though, with the forum rules as they are I wouldn't think either of them could seriously dispute that most if not all of their cards have been deserved. Bam deserved his last week, once again I'm fairly sure he wouldn't dispute it.
Yes people sometimes need to calm down, but both sides of any heated argument need to calm down sometimes, not just one. I'm more concerned that if people are unable to express an opinion without either being banned, called a c... or told to feck off, then the whole thing becomes pointless.
"se e in una bottigla ed e bianco, e latte".