how do i understand something i do not know? did i ever call you a toasterhead?
No you didn't and if you did it wouldn't hurt, it's just text. I was simply trying to put an example that one thing is insulting with text in a forum, and another attack someone in real life with delicate things as your job. For me the former is not serious, the latter it is.
Just a bit sensitive about that past thing that happened to a forum member here, and since I suspect for some reason Benny was him I overreacted a bit to your thread.
I plan to move on in this thread, if you don't mind.