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by **112-1077774096** » Sun May 18, 2008 12:20 am

i was watching Bobby at the FA cup last night and was amazed at his limp and his lack of use of his left arm, i always think of him being sprightly, anyway i found this article on the old fella, a manager i have always admired

Sir Bobby Robson: The knight’s tale

Sir Bobby Robson, who will present this year’s FA Cup, shows indefatigable spirit as he continues his 16-year battle with cancer

Sir Bobby Robson stares at his reflection in the bathroom mirror; the thatch of silver-grey hair on his head; the tanned and handsome face. He didn’t look like a man with cancer. He didn’t feel like a man with inoperable tumours on his lungs. But for the past 15 months he has been living with the bottom line. Time is running out.

He has slept well, something the journalist, later, would find curious. How could he sleep knowing what was coming up? Surely he was worried about his pending visit to the hospital and the results of the latest scan? No. He was mindful but not worried. He has never worried; not when he played for Fulham; not when he managed England; not when he had Elsie by his side. She had prayed quietly in bed last night . . .

“Hail Mary, full of grace, the Lord is with thee.” . . . She has prayed every night of their married life.

He returns to the bedroom and gazes out the window at the lush Durham fields and gently rolling countryside of his home in High Urpeth. It’s a beautiful sunny morning, the kind that makes him ache for the days when he used to rise at seven, drive to the training ground and jog excitedly on to the grass to meet his players. Now that was heaven. Football was God. No game had ever had a more devoted servant. But now his paradise is lost.

He walks with a pronounced limp these days. He has restricted use of his left arm and almost no use of his left hand. The loss of independence has been crushing. He can’t drive or play golf or tend his beloved garden. He can’t tie his shoes or knot his ties (he has always loved ties) or fold his suits neatly or place them on hangers. He eats fish, rather than meat, because he can’t use a knife and it feels as if every second sentence he utters is, “Elsie? Are you there?” The frustration drives him crazy.

“I never thought I would finish like this, with this disability,” he complains sometimes to friends. “When I was 72, I was on the pitch every day; I had an active body, an active mind; I prided myself on being fit all of my life.”

But Elsie will just shake her head and say with a laugh: “What do you mean ‘fit all your life?’ You’ve had cancer five times!”

Cancer. He has always treated the most dreaded of illnesses like a mild dose of flu. Take round one. The year is in 1992, Bobby Robson is 59 years old, two years have passed since Italia ’90 and the most successful English manager since Sir Alf Ramsey is living in Eindhoven and managing PSV. One day, after training, he mentions a persistent problem with bleeding piles to the club physician, Artur Woolf.

The physician accompanies him to a local hospital for tests and calls him with the results. “You need an operation,” Woolf announces. “You’ve got a bit of cancer in your colon and must have it removed.”

“How long will I be out of the game for?” Robson asks.

“At least three months,” Woolf replies. The Englishman is aghast. “Whaaatt! I can’t be out for three months? What about the team?”

“I didn’t understand the full implications of it,” he explains. “It was the first time that cancer had appeared in our family. None of my brothers had had it. My father lived until he was 86; my mother was 85, it didn’t cost me a second thought. I just faced it, had it removed and moved on.”

Round two was slightly more serious. The year is 1995, Bobby Robson is 62 years old, it’s the eve of his second season as manager of Porto and he is home on a summer break. He has been complaining for months about his sinuses. Elsie has arranged an appointment with a specialist and the obstruction - a thick black sludge - has been removed. A biopsy is conducted. The results aren’t good. Robson is informed that he has a malignant melanoma in his face. He reacts like a spot.

Huw Davies, the consultant surgeon, is not amused. “I understand you’re a football manager,” he intones. “Well, you will not see this season out, Mr Robson. By January, this thing will have gone into your eye and then into your brain.”

Robson still can’t believe it. “But look at me,” he protests. “I’m fit and strong. I feel fine.”

“We know. But you’ve got a malignant tumour inside your head, and we’re going to have to go through your head to get it. We’re going to have to cut you open, take your teeth out, go through the roof of your mouth and remove a fair proportion of the inside of your head to make sure we get it all out.”

The penny finally dropped. “That rocked me,” he says. “He painted such a graphic picture . . . that was the first time I thought, ‘Hmmm, I don’t like the sound of that’.”

Round three. The month is April 2006, Sir Bobby Robson is 73 years old and has just accepted a consultancy post with the Republic of Ireland. His son Mark has invited him to Austria to go skiing. He’s not sure. His friends in Eindhoven have invited him to a Champions League game, and then he’s flying to Madrid to renew acquaintances with Ronaldo. “I can give it three days, Mark, but not a week,” he explains. There will be plenty of time for skiing when he retires.

His grandson, Alexander, has also made the trip. It’s Robson’s first return to the slopes in 16 years but he still believes he’s a version of the great Austrian downhill skier Franz Klammer and bruises a rib in a fall. The rib is still hurting him three days later. He has it X-rayed in Eindhoven and the doctor discovers a shadow on his lung. Another biopsy, another bad result. There is a tumour the size of a golf ball on his lung.

“I was lucky,” he says with a smile. “If I hadn’t gone skiing, I wouldn’t have known. I went and had this operation and they removed about a third of the right side of my lung. I wasn’t going to run any more four-minute miles but I recovered quite well and I was fine.”

Round four. The month is August 2006, Sir Bobby Robson has just been made the honorary president of Ipswich Town and is sitting in the directors’ box at Portman Road for the first game of the season. Shortly after the kick-off he develops a twitch in his face. “I couldn’t talk,” he says. “I tried to tell my wife about the twitch and I couldn’t get one word out. I thought, ‘My God! What’s happening to me? I’m having a stroke’.”

He was taken downstairs and examined. Suddenly, the twitching stopped and he was talking again. “Right, let’s go back to the game,” he gushed.

“Wait, wait, wait,” the medics responded. “What do you mean, wait? I’m all right,” he huffed. “The game’s in progress; I’ve missed the first 12 minutes!”

“No, Bobby, let’s just go to the hospital and have you checked out,” they counselled.

The scans revealed a small tumour on his brain. He was operated on at Newcastle General Hospital three weeks later. The surgeons successfully removed the growth but he haemorrhaged during the operation and was paralysed down his left side.

At first, they feared he might not walk again, but once again he battled back courageously.

“Did you ever turn to God or religion?” I ask.

“No, I didn’t, not really.” “Did Elsie ever ask you to?” “No. She hardly left the house without saying, ‘I’ll say a prayer for you’ and I’d say, ‘Well, you do that, my love’ . . . it’s funny, I married a very devout, staunch, Roman Catholic girl but I don’t know that . . . I believe in God. I know there is a God up there and that if you’re a decent person you will get looked after.”

“You believe that?” “Oh, I do, and I do try to be a decent chap in all aspects. I don’t believe you come back again, some people do, don’t they? I don’t think that. I think once you’re gone, you’re gone, you’ve had your time; there’s another life up there but not on here. I think you disappear off to wherever you go but you will be well looked after, your body will be rested in peace.”

“So, what is heaven?” “Peace, tranquillity, no violence, a nice way of looking down and knowing that you had left a bit of a legacy down here, whatever that may be.”

“Do you meet your dad?” “I’m sure I’ll meet my dad. My dad is waiting for me.”

Final round. The month is February 2007. Sir Bobby Robson has just ticked off his 74th birthday and has an appointment with Professor Kelly at Newcastle General for the results of some routine scans. Elsie is feeling poorly and has stayed at home. Judith Horey, his personal secretary, has accompanied him to the hospital.

“Your brain scan is great,” the professor begins, “the swelling has gone down and it has recovered well . . . but we’ve discovered some small nodules in your lungs again.”

“Oh, don’t tell me that,” Robson grimaces, steeling himself already to go under the knife again. But the professor hasn’t finished.

“I’m afraid they’re inoperable,” he says. The word hit him like a kick in the crotch.

“I-n-o-p-e-r-a-b-l-e?” “Yes.” “So they’re . . . permanent.” “Yes.” He paused and tried to gather his composure. “So . . . how long do you think I’ve got?”

“I don’t know . . . eight . . . 10 . . . 12 . . . 24 months . . . you never know with cancer. It depends on whether we can control the tumours.”

“Oh.” Judith drove him home and he broke the news to Elsie. She was upset but incredibly strong. “Well, we’ve just got to make the best of it and you never know,” she said. “Be upright, be bold and enjoy your life.” Fifteen months have passed since he got the news. He has treasured every one.

SIR BOBBY ROBSON is sitting on the balcony of a penthouse suite of the Copthorne Hotel in Newcastle, telling me about his morning; his leisurely breakfast at home with Elsie; his trip to the suburb of Walker for physiotherapy; his visit to Newcastle General for the results of his latest scan. “The tumours at the moment are static,” he smiles. “There were two larger ones that were causing some concern but they’ve steadied now and are under control. They can’t understand it. They think I’m a rare guy.”

A rare guy? No doubt. Three months ago, weary and nauseous from the effects of chemotherapy, he launched the Sir Bobby Robson Foundation to raise an initial £500,000 for a new cancer research centre being built at Newcastle’s Freeman Hospital. The response from his friends in football and the corporate sector has been gratifying, but it’s the generosity of the ordinary man that has most warmed his heart.

The fiver from Martin Walker: “From a Sunderland fan and a County Durham lad whose family have cause to appreciate this.”

The tenner from John Walsh: “To one of England’s finest managers and one of football’s true gentlemen. Keep fighting and good luck with this very worthy cause.”

The tenner from Mich (Boro fan): “Sir Bobby, a true gentleman, you have the respect from football fans around the globe.”

The hundred from Moira King: “In memory of my late dad. We had the pleasure of meeting you on a flight to Newcastle and you carried our bags. My dad was made up.”

The £20 from Joel Teague: “Anything for wor Bobby.”

These months on borrowed time have been the busiest of his life . . . and some of the most enjoyable. He has just returned from a hectic weekend in Ipswich and on Saturday he will travel to Wembley to present the FA Cup to either Portsmouth or Cardiff City on the 30th anniversary of his Ipswich Town side’s triumph over Arsenal. He thought long and hard before accepting. “I’m a bit worried about my disability, my hand, and I don’t want people saying, ‘Look at that silly old bugger’. I want it to be right for the FA as well but I’m alive, and it’s a great opportunity and I think I can handle it.”

“What would you change if you had to do it again?” I ask.

“Not much,” he says. “I remember, as a boy, getting a composition in school, ‘What career would you like to embark on?’ I wrote that I wanted to be a professional footballer. I was a kid who played in the schoolyard kicking flints and stones and tennis balls. I never thought about playing for England; I never thought I was Tommy Lawton or Stanley Matthews; I just wanted to be a footballer.

“So I wouldn’t change anything. I managed England; I managed Barcelona; I came home and managed my father’s club – things as a kid I never even dreamed of. So to ask for more would be greedy. I stretched out as far as I ever could and my arm was longer than I ever thought it would be. I’ve had a wonderful life.”

The interview has almost ended. He rises from his seat on the balcony, flashes a beautiful smile and invites you to enjoy the magnificent view of the Tyne. The month is May 2008; Sir Bobby Robson is 75 years and 81 days old. But here’s the miracle. He’s not counting.

How you can help tackle cancer The Sir Bobby Robson Foundation is a charity set up to help raise money to equip a new cancer trials research centre at the Freeman Hospital, in Newcastle. The aim is to raise £500,000 by the end of this month and have the centre up and running by October. It will then be known as the Sir Bobby Robson Cancer Trials Research Centre The foundation will initially focus on the early detection and treatment of cancer and will also help support clinical trials of promising new treatments to tackle the disease. To make a donation, visit www.sirbobbyrobsonfoundation.org.uk or you can send a cheque to the Sir Bobby Robson Foundation, PO Box 307, Heaton, NE7 7QG

by **The Manhattan Project** » Sun May 18, 2008 12:25 am

Time is running out.

Sadly, it seems to be the case.

by **Dundalk** » Sun May 18, 2008 12:48 am

A true gentleman

by **NANNY RED** » Sun May 18, 2008 1:18 am

Seen that Pee lad gutted for him that what you call a true gentlemen though i mean that lad hand on heart

by **LFC2007** » Sun May 18, 2008 2:31 am

I remember him at the BBC sports personality awards, he looked frail, yet despite his old age he still effused that fresh enthusiasm we all associate with him. A humble gent, and a legend of the game.

:bowdown

by **Reinas No.1 Fan** » Sun May 18, 2008 2:46 am

Respect the legend

by **112-1077774096** » Sun May 18, 2008 12:14 pm

NANNY RED wrote:Seen that Pee lad gutted for him that what you call a true gentlemen though i mean that lad hand on heart

some people deserve knighthoods nanny based on the way they carry themselves throughout their careers and their lives, bobby is like bob paisley in that respect, never heard a bad word said about either (we all know its a scandal bob paisley was not knighted). but then that red noised tw@t gets knighted for arguing his way through life and being abusive and cheating, makes a mockery of the honours system tbh

by **7_Kewell** » Sun May 18, 2008 3:27 pm

great manager who got stabbed in the back by Newcastle....the irony is he is no one since has got Newcastle into the top 3 since!

True gent who hopefully will be around for a few more years yet!

by **The Manhattan Project** » Sun May 18, 2008 5:18 pm

A good England manager too.

With the exception of EURO 88, England performed very well under Bobby Robson.

They were robbed in 1986 and lost on a very narrow margin at Italia 90.

by **RUSHIE#9** » Sun May 18, 2008 7:04 pm

Sir Bobby is a true legend of the English game. Took a small town club in Ipswich to the heights of European success and then nearly triumphed with England on the biggest stage in the game.

He comes across as probably one of the nicest guys in the English and probably European game.
He's a true legend especially having battled back from such a horrible disease so many times!!

:bowdown

SIR BOBBY ROBSON :bowdown

by **Kharhaz** » Sun May 18, 2008 11:55 pm

I was reading through my old copies of footy mags and came across one from October 1996. It was when he took over at Barcelona and took Jose Mourinho with him as his assitant and the answer to one question in particular is why the man lives and shows no surprise why he was at the final, despite him not looking his best.

Question

Most of your contemporaries are planning nothing more strenuous than a round of golf. Do you relish a challenge?

Answer

Sure, I love a challenge and im not ready to retire. Im very active. Im still immersed in football, im very much in love with the game and you never cease to learn. Im always motivated by it, and if I didnt work I wouldnt know what to do. Yes, I play a game of golf. Yes, I like watching a bit of telly and reading a good book. And yes, in the winter, I like to go skiing, but nothing compares with actually being in charge of a football club - that adrenalin and the need to have that every Saturday. Football is still my passion. Im not ready to retire and until this gut reaction of mine tells me its time to do so, I wont.

Through much of that interview his answers were that of a man who answered straight from his heart, no poncing about but not putting others down either. There was also another question which was asked that taking control of Barcelona was the biggest challenge of his career which he shot down straight away without knocking Barcelona, saying that nothing can compare to the england job and coaching your country is a great honour.

Top man, never forgot his roots and has always remained a gent.

by **Big Niall** » Mon May 19, 2008 1:49 pm

it isn't that long since he had Newcastle a regular feature in the champions league but apparantly the Geordie experts thought that when they missed out one year, he must be past it.

Fools :angry:

by **Dundalk** » Mon May 19, 2008 2:43 pm

Big Niall wrote:Fools

You said it

by **Toffeehater** » Wed May 28, 2008 6:49 am

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